These days, more and more people are beginning to join the fetish and BDSM dating community. Many of these people have a soft spot for the psychological downplay of kinky affairs. What makes people kinky? It is safe to say that folks might become kinky because it enriches their lifestyle. Whether you are born kinky, or a life experience or two have led you down this adventurous path, you can find the right community for your kinky, sexual, and fetish desires with people just like you.
Presently, there are all kinds of apps for folks interested in kinks, but how to choose the right one for you comes with a big question mark. Here, we have spent well over 2 weeks researching the top 10 fetish dating apps manually and their performances on different devices, platforms and Internet service providers. You could simply compare them before joining to save your time.We also go a step further to list their unique features, prices and some of the frequently asked question and answers. Whether you are looking for kinky singles, couples or fetish/BDSM information, you can be rest assured that you will find the best answers to your questions here, thank to the comprehensive information available here.
The KinkD social networking is a place to meet couples, single women and single men of all sexual preferences who can be black, white, Asian, Latino, gay, lesbians, bisexual, transgender, interested in fetish dating. When KinkD App started in 2006, it didn’t receive a traditional welcome, as skepticism hovered around the app’s future. Today, however, Kink has become quite the force with regards to fetish online dating. Kinkd which happens to be one of the best BDSM dating apps right now has an appearance and feel like Tinder which is suitable for kink and fetish alternative lifestyles. In my opinion, kinkD is quite an interesting development among kinky dating apps which could see mainstream acceptance of people who possess fringe fetish lifestyles as well as indulge those who had no idea of an inner longing for such fantasies. In my eyes, KinkD is a world where everyone regardless of wants is welcome.
FetL is a prominent app within BDSM spheres and rightly so, thanks to a completely free registration process and an abundance of participants, you can almost always get a sneak peek into the kinky life using this app. I was impressed by it’s perceptional GUI, responsive app design and beautiful color themes.
If you take away the battery sapping power of the app, the sometimes-unresponsive links and maybe the price for elite services, I feel this could be the best dating site yet, and I mean that not only among fetish dating sites. The content, the layout and even the colors were all very well thought out. All am saying is Whiplr could do with more developers as it is obvious they are over working the existing ones and check to see the results.
KNKI is a fast app. Despite the number of images that load up on the home screen, the app manages to maintain an impressive speed even with fluctuating Internet speeds. It would have been quite a mess to have to wait for pictures to load, but this is obviously not the case here. As you might have already noted, I do not like that shade of purple, but that is my own opinion. All in all, the app makes up for its scarcely populated user database with those pictures I talked about.
VANILLA UMBRELLA in terms of quality is still lacking, but we can overlook this, as not everyone is into kinky dating and even those into it, are sparsely located, thanks to cultural differences, and development. Vanilla app for me is an excellent app in terms of privacy and security, given the “pin” feature which locks you out once your screen times out. It is one of those little features that you have to try to understand just how handy it can be. After coming across these features, I wished tinder had this feature when my ex took hold of my phone while I went to take a leak, a story for yet another day. Finally, on the issue of cost, it is safe to say that Vanilla Umbrella app is arguably one of the most expensive apps for kinks out there. It, therefore leaves much to be desired to quite a large extent.
Recon is owned by the company T101 and the app was launched early in 2009. Apart from the feeling of signing your own adoption papers, Recon is a force to be reckoned within the BSDM community. It’s a shame that it is strictly for men. The general layout and build of the app are way above average and to top it all, the quality of content is very ever-present in Recon. Other positives include very flexible premium payment plans fitting to many users. There will obviously be negatives though one of which is, the effect the app has on your battery when the GPS is left to run in the background. Recon has made quite an app here. And it’s only a matter of time before the ladies come asking for their own pound of flesh.
Kinkstr is owned by North Oliver LLC and was started in 2016. Apart from the selected colour scheme, Kinkstr seems like an app to be reckoned with in the near future. Despite being a fairly new kid on the block, it has managed to amass cult like users and nothing speaks volumes of a potentially successful app than this. The number of users is currently quite frail especially when consideration is put on the current unavailability of an android app. All in all, Kinkstr have made a good app, we just have to wait and see if the kinky populace thinks so too.
Feeld is a fully remote, design-led company founded in London in 2014. Feeld takes yet another approach to solving the issue of fake accounts and bots, but leaves a gaping hole in the area of security. The app itself is a wonderful app to say the least, and it also possesses quality content. The little shenanigans with wallpapers and audio files also endear the app to the fetish faithful. An excellent app, but what happens if someone has my unlocked phone?
SDC was started as early as 1999. SDC is an app to have if you need to get laid soon without all the gibberish we call “creating a connection”. It is almost an automated process. It is not exactly suited for folks who want to meet “the one who makes the heart beat” online..lol.. I also wouldn’t rule that out but I feel it is highly unlikely given the atmosphere on the app. While the app does an incredible job on the site design and customer service, it falters to an extent in quantity of quality even though that is not supposed to be a criterion. Everyone at one point in their lives wanted to live on an Island with 300 hotties from Barbados or 200 Anthony Joshua’s. (Whichever makes you tick). So, you see quantity of quality is the Achilles heel of SDC.
Swinger Safari is a premier GPS enabled kinky swinger app and it was started in 2014. Swinger Safari is a wonderful app if we eliminate the frequent app crashes. It’s no wonder why it has won so many accolades and consecutively too in the annual Lifestyle awards. Another point noteworthy is the pricing which seems too good to be true, given the features and quality of kinks available on the app. Did I forget to mention why this app maybe one of my personal favorites? The privacy! With Swinger Safari, I can have a fetish life at an end of the pole and have my regular life on my social media platforms thanks to the developers at SS who assured the project team that this was a good move. It indeed is. Fix the failing app though!!
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